

I witnessed this support in the fall of 2019, when she was on her 25-year anniversary tour at Ravinia. thanks these fans for their unwavering support. But her fans loved it and supported her unconditionally. At some point, she abused alcohol and drugs, and her trials with recovery and rehab, and a painful breakup after a long, public relationship with K-Ci, of Jodeci fame, were evident in her songs. When she first started touring and taking planes out of the country, it was a bit overwhelming. Singing was an escape for Mary J., who has 13 studio albums under her belt. There were people hurting people and hurting each other. had a rough upbringing, and she thought she was limited by her environment. said that she would listen to “Everybody Loves the Sunshine” by Roy Ayers, and that the song “cracked open everything in me and made me want to forget that we lived where we lived.” She, in fact, wanted sunshine in her life.Īs it has been documented, Mary J. first started out, she was so “real,” as folks would say that Harrell deemed her the “Queen of Ghetto Fabulous.” But this ghetto distinction was soon forgotten, as Mary J. added, “I was singing for my life-literally.” had one foot in the studio and one foot in the projects.” Sean “Diddy” Combs mentioned that there was a lot of pain in the streets, while Mary J. was singing “the pain of a generation,” as Nas said that after she was discovered, “Mary J.

at her home in the Schlobohm Housing Project in the Bronx, New York, where she had moved with her mom and siblings after her parents divorced.Īnother industry executive noted that Mary J. Henson.Īnd as people can now sing the words to Mary J.’s catalogue of songs, she got her start by making a kiosk-style recording of Anita Baker’s “Rapture” that somehow went through the grapevine to the ears of the late music executive Andre Harrell, who traveled in his blinged-out BMW to visit Mary J. “Her image was so bold and made it OK for people to say it’s alright to be me,” said Taraji P. adds that when she started out, she was a wreck inside, and women everywhere identified with that pain-as well as with her unique casual but “fly” style that was popular during the mid-80s with teens and young women all over, especially in New York. It was the darkest time in my life, and I was either going to live or die.” “There was a lot in me that I needed to get out. She considers this album the most important of all her albums, she explains in the documentary. is how I will refer to this iconic singer in this review, since everyone knows her by this name, and Blige would seem too formal, considering her popularity and influence on many folks the world over. In the process, she celebrates the 25th anniversary of her most influential work by performing the album live for the first time. Blige’s My Life, the renowned singer reveals the demons and blessings that inspired the record and propelled her from the soul-crushing world of New York’s housing projects to international stardom. In Oscar®-winning filmmaker Vanessa Roth’s documentary Mary J. Blige set the music world on fire with her trailblazing 1994 LP “My Life,” a collection of powerful confessionals about her battles with abuse, depression and addiction that forged a profound and enduring connection with millions of fans around the globe. Dre-produced smash “Family Affair” or her breakout single “Real Love.Nine-time Grammy®-winning recording artist and Academy Award-nominated singer and actress Mary J. And given her decades worth of hits, it’s likely she’ll opt for a crowd pleaser like the Dr.

While performing songs from her new album might be the best marketing strategy heading into the Super Bowl, she admitted that she’ll only have enough time during the performance for one song. Nothing’s ever good enough.” At the time, she was going through a painful divorce from her ex-husband Kendu Isaacs, and in the early days of her career, she was in an infamously tumultuous relationship with Jodeci singer K-Ci Hailey.

“If you’ve never been beat down mentally by someone, you’re never pretty enough. “I didn’t feel beautiful - like for real for real, not just ‘Hey, I’m pretty’ but actually believing it - until about 2016,” she said honestly. She admitted in a recent interview with Elle that she didn’t even think she was gorgeous until just a few years ago. While artists make music about celebrating themselves all the time, self-love was something that didn’t come easy to Mary J.
